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Katie K's avatar

Why not ask women? Like just survey women directly why they aren't getting married and having kids...it's crazy how every article I see is just men hypothesizing instead of asking the source.

Many women will give you the same response - they cannot find men with similar levels of education attainment and income potential to partner with. Now that women have access to education, capital, and contraception, they control their own fertility. They'd rather not partner than partner with men who do not view them as equals. Those middle-class suburban couples who are actually having kids? Poll the men on their views of women and how they split parenting responsibilities and I think you'd find the recipe to success...

Until men view women as equals, this crisis will continue!

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The examples of Japan and Catalan are somewhat alarming to me. "This is not about bringing in a few immigrants. This is about changing your country. That country will not be Japan." This seems to uncritically accept an argument that a country is comprised not of a shared culture or shared ideology but of a shared ethnicity. "Japan" is a varied set of cultural norms and contradictions spanning language, art, architecture, history, religion, social norms, foods, traditions, ways of being - there is no reason why any white or brown or whatever person couldn't be part of "Japan" unless Japan is ONLY an ethnic category. It seems bad to hear someone way "this is about not having a country anymore" and defend them as being totally reasonable and not racist or anti-immigrant.

The example of Catalan as a language dying in the following paragraph is also interesting - "if you're a native Catalan speaker, this is existential" no its not. You can still speak Catalan, you can teach your kids Catalan, you can start an after-school program where everyone speaks Catalan if you think its an important part of the culture you want to preserve. Immigrants don't threaten that. No one is "killing" Catalan (at least, not that I know of - maybe Spain has programs akin to the way the US deliberately tried to destroy our indigenous languages and cultures. In which case, I'd say that's a problem that has little to do with birth rates). It feels like the guest is defending a lot of mundanely racist attitudes while handwaving with a "I'm not against immigration, it's not about being anti-immigrant".

I just thought it was interesting that I read all of that, feeling increasingly that the guest was blithely making a lot of unproven and (imo) harmful and hidden assertions, and Thompson's first reply is "You're making what seems to be an almost mathematical point."

Much of the piece is about culture, it feels like its trying to prove that falling fertility rates leads to a destruction of culture. The economic side is perhaps easier to defend (if you assume that the basic logic of our economy is unchangeable, which I think is a bad assumption but always seems to be the case in pieces about birth rates). I don't think the goal of the piece was to convince me that falling birth rates are bad per se (moreso trying to convince me that the fall is bigger than I think) but not only did it *not* convince me that falling birth rates are bad, it convinced me further that people who are very worried about "birth rates" are also worried about a lot of things I'd consider to be goofy racism (and goofy anti-feminism, too, but this piece addresses those "concerns" just fine).

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