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David C Hager, MD, MS's avatar

Definitions: I've seen solitude as a voluntary, mind-clearing beneficial state ... and loneliness as a soul-sucking problem. So ironic with so many of us around nowadays. "Water, water everywhere, nor any drop to drink."

Story I retell: I remember a colleague/friend telling me about a conversation he had during family medicine training with an elder black man in a Pt. Arthur, TX neighborhood. He knew what was wrong with the world ... air conditioners and televisions ... because nobody sits out on their front porches anymore.

Paved the way for me to later read Putnam's "Bowling Alone."

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Hmm. I can agree with this as "a factor", but I wouldn't call it "THE factor"...

As a test, it is free and trivial to text some friends to come over and hang out. No Baumol factor there. But we don't. Why? Not perfectly clear, but I think the substitution value of so many personalized media options is a big factor. I can stay home and watch exactly what I want, instead of coordinating with a group.

Also being "loosely connected" to many people and everything happening in the world when I am on my phone or laptop, versus being narrowly (but closely) connected to just a small group when we are in person.

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